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This suggestion of the parents was inspired by a book I read by Jay Abrams, the marketing guru. He wrote that a good strategy for success is to borrow the successful practices from other industries and using them on their own. Like this writes, you will always have an advantage over competitors who are only using a strategy for success. So I look so different, seemingly unrelated fields to learn how to be a better parent.
The following parenting tip I learned from business andcalled MBWA-Managing By Walking Around. This management model argues that managers should mingle with the workers to hear their feedback to see what their passions and fears, and to give them good encouraging words. This makes for a nice warm and productive workplace.
We parents must do the same. If you take the time to notice and to learn what is happening in the world, your children, listen to their feedback, and give encouraging words, you will make your homea pleasant and welcoming and productive life.
For example, the other night my son got an iPod from a friend and gave one of his brothers (not mine) that would change the language on it (he is not a native English speaker.) Website of the British Apple is too difficult for him to do it himself so he decided to wait for a friend to do it for him. This brother and I spoke yesterday evening at 11:00 I called him and told him: "Come let us change thelanguage on your iPod! "You should have seen the smile on his face!
Some tips on how:
* Try to find in the most showy, low-keyed, and imperceptibly what is stressful and disturbing your child.
* When you find what is stressing or worrying about them, inconspicuous, low-key and unnoticeably help you out of that situation. When their conscious mind does not notice your help, their unconscious mind appreciate it.
* Praise them when they dosomething right. In addition to praise their praise to someone else (your mother, mother-in-law or friend), when you supposed to not listen.
* Try to find in the most showy, low-keyed, and so subtle that what your child is excited and surprised her doing something about it ..
* Do not:
* Do not interrogate your kids: What's troubling you? What would you like to see in different house? What is our favorite food? This makes the housetense and unpleasant.
* Do not hang around them long to see what he likes / dislikes me. They want their space.
* Do not give your negative opinion too openly about what they are enthusiastic.
Mother followed this advice and become parents MBWA. Soon you will see your home transformed into a pleasant, warm and productive.








